I need to stop being friends with people who play victim
I've realized today that I have made friends with too many people who refuse to take responsibility for their actions and want to play victim all the time. I can't keep being around people like that. It is so frustrating to do things for them and feel like my time was wasted or I am being disrespected by the way they treat my time. I have also realized from this experience that I have dated way too many women who played victim and I need to stop doing that. I need to find a woman with similar morals and values who is a no bullshit type of person. I need to start evaluating women based on if she would be a good teammate to me rather than just simply enjoying being around her(of course I would want to enjoy being around her, but that would come after judging if we make a great team or not).