• William Young

It's okay to express yourself


I hate when people get mad when you speak on how you feel or say you need to mature. If you ask me it is immature if you try to keep someone from expressing how they feel. The reason for not expressing how you feel is either avoiding conflict or avoiding having someone hurt your feelings. It has nothing to do with maturity. It is good for us to get that stuff out. If we don't it builds out and causes health issues from stress, anger, depression, etc. How is it immature to do something that keeps you healthy and keeps your sanity. Y'all wonder why places get shot up. It's cause they have that stupid belief that they can't express themselves. When you hold that in you eventually end up hurting yourself or someone else. We all have different things that work for us. Some of us it's journals, some it's friends, some it's social media. At the end of the day every single person is saying how they feel to someone and unfortunately not all of us have people that we can talk to, because they are too busy, they piss us off or stress us out even more, they don't understand, etc. And for some of us social media just makes us feel better.

Beyond those factors I could guarantee that 99.9999999% of the time when people post these things it isn't about 1 specific person(sorry, but the world doesn't revolve around you). It is likely that several people are doing this thing and the person saying this is either fed up or they are making an observation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting things off your chest. If you can express that to the world then that means you don't give a fuck what the world thinks(which is very good) or you want the whole world to know how you feel about it(which is also good, because it helps you avoid further issues and get rid of people who will make you unhappy by staying around). At the end of the day if you fit the description you can only be mad at yourself. YOU chose to be that person. The one talking about it didn't force you to be like that. You have the option to change that person. If you feel offended then YOU need to stop being that person rather than get upset that you think they are talking about you.

If anyone gets upset about this post them i'm talking about YOU. YOU need to change who you are. No I didn't know I was talking about you when I typed this and I may never know. Unless you get butthurt and want to tell me I need to grow up and mature or something like that, but it's okay because whatever reply you have to this will be you speaking the truth to your inner mirror.

Fact is whether you like it or not my personality and the things I post force people to look in the mirror at their true self, so if you EVER feel offended by anything I write then you need to re evaluate yourself, because I have never said the name of anyone.

#self #express #expression #maturity

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